How to avoid social isolation as you age? Isolation is one of the key issues that we face as we age. Women more than men will be in this predicament as women tend to outlive their male partners. Are you are rattling around in that big house on your own? Have you thought about where you will be able to live now that you have reached the third half of your life?
Do you want more success in your life? Do you dream of things that you can accomplish? Do you know what ‘your success’ should/would look like? So many of us drift along through life without having a goal, a life plan and wake up one day and realise that a few decades have swept past. Where does all that time go and where are the accomplishments?
The retirement vision is something we eagerly await. Some of us have a clearly defined picture of our future retired lives. We know the location, the activities, the travel and dream of the free time. What happens then when this definition of our retired life is not duplicated by our partner? After all those years together, could we possibly want a different life in retirement to them?
What do we do to fill in our time when we are not working? Some of us will get bored, some will be lonely and some may feel angry that their life had not turned out as they expected. We don’t have a crystal ball when we start out on our life’s journey. Most of us just go with the flow and deal with life and its emergencies as they unfold. Do you ever sit and wonder and reflect back and think if only I had made a different decision would my life be better now? I certainly do.
Time management is an abhorrent phrase to me. No one manages time. It runs along smartly with or without our cooperation. We do speak ofe. No one manages time using time. In this sense, there is a biological clock that ticks within us all. Each of us has a different setting of which we are unaware. Nonetheless, we all are aware that in the earth plane of existence, time is a limited and perhaps precious commodity for each and every one of us.